The Bodhisatta was once an ascetic. After his wife died, he took his young son and lived an austere religious life deep in the Himalayas. Many years later some bandits from the border region raided a town to take plunder and slaves. One beautiful but wicked woman escaped and during her journey she came upon the Bodhisatta’s hut. He was away gathering fruit, but his son was at home and the woman quickly charmed him into sleeping with her. Then she told him they should leave and live in civilization and he agreed to go with her, but he needed to say goodbye to his father. She knew if she was still there when the Bodhisatta returned, he would beat her and drag her into the forest by her feet, so she left right away, giving the son detailed directions how to get to her village later. He became sad and lay down without doing his duties.
When the Bodhisatta returned he saw the woman’s footprints and knew his son’s virtue had been lost. He asked his son why he was acting pitiful, and he answered that he had fallen in love with a woman and decided to give up the difficult forest life and return to the kingdom. The Bodhisatta could clearly see there was no way to convince him to change his mind, so he bid him farewell and told him he could always come back if things didn’t work out. At her house she ordered him around to fetch meat, ghee, salt, and everything else she wanted. Feeling more like a slave than a husband, he quickly grew unhappy and ran away back to his home in the Himalayas and never again wavered from the ascetic life.
In the Lifetime of the Buddha
The wicked woman who tempted the Bodhisatta’s son was an earlier birth of a plump, lascivious young woman who had no suitors for marriage. Her mother decided to entice one of the Buddha’s disciples into falling for her. That morning, as she offered alms to the disciples walking past her house, she looked for one who could be tempted by a craving for good food. Eventually she saw one who had not given up his concern with his appearance: the corners of his eyes were anointed with oil, some hair hung down, his robes were of fine fabric and immaculately clean, and his bowl was colored like a precious gem. The mother knew she could corrupt him, so when he came to the door she took his bowl and invited him into the house to eat the best food she could provide. When he was done, she told him to come by again anytime. He took up her offer and they got to know each other well.
When she thought it was the right time, the mother took the next step in her plan by telling the disciple that theirs was a happy household, but the problem was she had no son or son-in-law to maintain it. The next time he came, she had her daughter adorn herself and begin seducing him with womanly tricks and wiles – and it worked. The disciple fell under her power and decided to leave the monkhood. The Buddha told him this story to let him know that this same woman had harmed him and tried to lure him away from a spiritual life in an earlier birth, when he was the young ascetic living in the Himalayas.